What if you could create your own reality? What if you could have everything you ever wanted just because you chose to make it so? People would probably say something like, “no way” or “I wish it was that easy”. People tend to think that you have to be lucky or work your butt off until you die to live your dream life and that there is no other way (except your life is almost over by then).Well you can do it and it is easier than you think. You absolutely can have everything you want and create your own reality and here is how.

I believe in the law of attraction and I use it in my life everyday. It is no surprise that the people who are in a business like mine believe in it and use it too. People who achieve their goals and make their dreams a reality do something a little differently. They focus on what they want and they believe that they deserve it and that they WILL get it. They focus on making ideal situations come to fruition and meeting people who they can feel good around. Successful people are happy with what they have and show gratitude for it. They would probably also agree that being happy is the biggest part of being successful. They focus on the positive and what they want out of life and not on all the stuff they don’t want in life. This is the law of attraction. You can learn even more about this amazing and life-changing mindset in the book, The Secret written by Rhonda Byrne.

When you start doing all of these things and creating more positive situations and going with the things you are attracted to and focusing on what you want to happen in your life, you attract more of it. You are sending a message out into the universe that you want something and then with that positive affirmation you go after it. You are making your desire a reality.

So for instance, if your dream is to attend a big prestigious University for college then it would be a good idea to research the school or visit the campus. Picture yourself attending class there and making friends. Think about which courses or degrees you are interested in. Maybe even thinking about attending a few parties during your college years will sweeten the pot. By doing this you are putting in motion the law of attraction and manifesting your own desires into the universe. You are more likely to attend this college because you are expressing that is what you like and what you want.

Whenever you think you can or think you can’t, either way you are right. – Henry Ford


When events flow smoothly and everything falls into line like a row of dominos, you know you are doing the right thing. When we get the things we want in life, we feel good, we feel happy. That’s because “like attracts like”. However, when everything in the world is preventing what you want from happening and you are forcing it, that is the universe’s way of letting you know it is a bad idea or not for you. When your choices throw your life into chaos and imbalance, it is probably not a path you want to follow. We always seem to think we know what is best for us but sometimes it is the glitz and glamour, the outer surface shining at us that we are attracted to. But, that doesn’t mean that it is a perfect fit for us. Read the signs. Life should flow smoothly when you are staying true to yourself and not only what you want but what is good for you and what flows with ease. There is a natural balance to everything. So focus on what you feel good about, what makes you happy, what makes you and your life better. This is the universe’s way of showing you which way to go. It’s called following your heart and intuition.



A personal story: I was building our business before I knew what I was building. I just started with a dream and an idea of having my freedom and time. I just started moving in the direction I wanted to go, even though I didn’t have everything completely worked out. When it all came together after 3 years of learning and struggling to make it work, I was in shock how everything came perfectly and divinely together to create a reality that I had only dreamed and written about. I’ve always had an entrenpreneurial mindset. I had tried at least 7 different businesses since I was 20 and none of them worked out the way I thought they would. I knew I wasn’t meant for the modern-day work-life and I knew that I had to make leaps of faith, have an open mind and make my dreams happen for myself. I knew that no one would ever give me permission to live the life I wanted. All I knew was that I had to follow my heart. I knew what I wanted in life was not impossible. When you stay true to yourself and focus on what you want in life, take every opportunity to get closer to it, IT WILL HAPPEN.

I love helping people and I tend to find myself giving advice, so I find it interesting that I would end up writing on the same topics. I originally started on a completely different path but, I learned that what I was really good at was writing about self-improvement and life and love and chasing dreams. I do get to help people. I get to write about something I am very passionate about. I get to have more time and freedom to focus on making myself better and growing. I get to do the same with my kids.

In 2012, when I quit the last “job” I ever had, I wrote in my journal what I was truly passionate about and where I wanted my life to go. I kept that giant journal of ideas and inspiration and I still read over it to remind myself why. Why I do what I do and what my goals are. I still even add new ideas and goals as they come. Many of the things I wrote down to accomplish, I have. There are still many to be tackled and that Is why I work hard everyday. To see how aligned my life is with my vision is all the proof I need. I know that the law of attraction and having faith in God’s plan for me works and now that I know what I know about my mind and the power of my thoughts, I will never go back to another way of thinking. It’s only up from here.

Man, alone, has the power to transform his thoughts into physical reality; man, alone, can dream and make his dreams come true.

– Napoleon Hill

Give yourself a chance to have the life you deserve. Whatever that may be. You are what you think about all the time. So focus on the good and everything you have and then show gratitude for it. It’s hard to see the bad stuff when you have your eyes on the prize. If there is something inside of you telling you that life can be better and that you were meant for more, then you should listen to that voice and keep pursuing your vision. Everything will work out and everything will be okay when you have faith in the dream of a better life. Anything is possible when you put your mind to it. Watch as more ideal opportunities are presented to you. You can create your own reality. Believe in yourself and all that lies ahead of you. It is very exciting.

Formula for creating your reality

Dream Big

Follow your heart

Focus on the positive

Show gratitude


Ask · Believe · Receive


Favorite Law of Attraction Quotes

There is a truth deep down inside of you that has been waiting for you to discover it, and that truth is this: you deserve all good things life has to offer.

– Rhonda Byrne

“A lot of people feel like they’re victims in life, and they’ll often point to past events, perhaps growing up with an abusive parent or in a dysfunctional family. Most psychologists believe that about 85 percent of families are dysfunctional, so all of a sudden you’re not so unique. My parents were alcoholics. My dad abused me. My mother divorced him when I was six…I mean, that’s almost everybody’s story in some form or not. The real question is, what are you going to do now? What do you choose now? Because you can either keep focusing on that, or you can focus on what you want. And when people start focusing on what they want, what they don’t want falls away, and what they want expands, and the other part disappears.    – Jack Canfield, The Secret 

It is the combination of thought and love which forms the irresistible force of the law of attraction.
– Charles Hammel